Culture

Retrospectively thankful for the kindness of strangers

The migraine had started the day before the flight. Anxiety, fear, another strange city, another few days of second guessing, trying not to fall foul of the quixotic, moody boss who had to be kept happy or nobody’s life was worth living. Was it really any wonder this...

 Relishing the impact of inspirational colleagues 

About 12 years ago I did my Belbin Team Roles1 analysis. It came free with the purchase of a book and I duly registered, contacted several colleagues to fill out the questionnaires and awaited the 360 type results. Belbin, for those who are not familiar with it,...

Resisting the propoganda

After 16 hours and a short flight down to Gatwick, we finally took off for our destination, at one o’clock in the morning. As the cabin lights dimmed and the plane left the runway, there was a civilised cheer from the passengers. A last-minute invitation, to join our...

Re asking the question: why so afraid of the truth?

“That’s a bit harsh.” There it was again.  A put down, albeit accompanied by a smile. A ‘get-back-in-your-box’ comment. I could add it to the collection, along with, “straight talking,” “feisty,” “scary,” “abrupt,” not to mention the emotional or bossy comments....
Reviewing: Through a glass darkly

Reviewing: Through a glass darkly

They were talking. I knew that because I could see their mouths moving. Their heads, their faces animated. My eyes told me information that my ears and my brain were not able to take in. How could they talk, continue to communicate, carry on as if the world had not...

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Re-strengthening our sense of belonging.

Re-strengthening our sense of belonging.

The final two lines of our recently published poem on diversity triggered further thinking. We come across the word ‘inclusion’ a great deal in the public sector, but there are still many of us who feel excluded at work. What is the difference between the more formal,...

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Re-leveling: how stories ground us.

Re-leveling: how stories ground us.

Doctors make mistakes. There; I've said it. For those of us in the profession, that can be a hard pill to swallow, but the earlier that lesson is learnt the better, not only for our patients but also for ourselves. Doctors make mistakes - the important question is,...

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Re-posing the diversity question

Re-posing the diversity question

Oh, how they quivered! They shuffled in their seat, they looked at each other, their heart missed a beat. Not sure it was a triumph. It was clear they were caught unawares of something. Some unsavoury thought? They had to ask me the diversity question: ‘how would you...

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Re examining the face of it: façadism

Re examining the face of it: façadism

We were out to lunch with our most well travelled, urbane friends.  “Have you seen those buildings in London?” asked one. “They pull down the entire building, all of it, except the façade. Then rebuild behind it.”  “I think that’s what they are doing with...

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Respecting the self

Respecting the self

“One runs away to find oneself, and finds no one at home.” Joan Didion. Stress, burnout, moral injury. These are words that occupy time and space in much of what we read at the moment. Whilst there appears to be an epidemic of workplace distress in every...

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Re-defining misogyny

Re-defining misogyny

A medical visitor from another part of the world asks me recently, have I encountered much misogyny in my twenty years of working with doctors.  Images immediately crowd my mind. Men in suits, ignoring me. A meeting room. Late night calls. Being screamed at down...

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Reconnecting: let’s have a good old chat

Reconnecting: let’s have a good old chat

It was my first day of work. First day as a fully qualified but on probation teacher. It had taken four and a half years with no holidays – we did our teaching practices in the holidays, and I had worked very hard to achieve not just a degree but a diploma in...

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