Reconsidering our role in others’ downfalls

Reconsidering our role in others’ downfalls

“But we love you.” Four little words. Three that matter and one that negates the three, turns them on their head, makes a mockery of them. That little word ‘but’ makes a world of difference. Beware the word ‘but.’ Don’t be fooled by the phrase, “but we love you.” How...
Re-defining paranoia

Re-defining paranoia

“I’m probably being paranoid.”  How often have you said this, as a preface to saying something you suspect will be dismissed? How often has a friend or colleague said it? And what does it mean, in our common usage of the term?  Paranoia as many of us will...
Re-defining: culture and purpose

Re-defining: culture and purpose

It was my first ward sisters post. It was on ‘that ward’. You know, the one that everyone talks about? The staff are always rude, (apparently) the patients have a terrible experience and it always has well, an ‘aroma’ about it. Colleagues looked at me with total...